not only feminised, but just about emasculated -- we never actually get to see his penis; it's only hinted at (and it is tiny, even considering ayase's diminutive size). ayase spends half his screen time in skirts. he's a damsel in permanent distress who cries at the drop of a hat. he's kind and gentle and forgiving of even those who harm him -- the ideal image of a traditional japanese woman. so yeah, ayase is clearly not meant to be a man at all. OGN is also thinly veiled shota because ayase is so small; i go ouch every time they have sex.
i hated this the first time i looked at it and put it down after the 1st volume. but with any manga that is this popular, i usually give it another chance, and read more of it to see whether it improves. so this time i have caught up with the scanlation at v8 ch39.
that was quite the slog; i should get a reward in the form of some good manga. OGN does improve. but it does so very slowly (v5), and not by much. ayase grows more of a spine, yay, but he is still dense beyond belief, and gets himself into one bad situation after another, from which he has to be rescued by kanou who solves the problem with violence, and then forces sex on ayase. half of those situations consist of some bad guy molesting ayase. kanou himself improves a little bit as well -- he's admitted that he is a (still disgusting) homo, and is considering consensual sex (!), though he doesn't actually live up to it; what happens instead is that ayase comes around. on that subject, @addicted2u seems to be confused by reading too much stupid BL: rape means to force sex on somebody against their will. it doesn't matter whether the person has a physiological reaction; it is still rape if they have not clearly consented to it. men can get an erection when they're greatly frightened -- read some science, please, before becoming an apologist for the dumbest BL trope ever. if you like rape fantasies, hey, your kink is ok, but don't call it something else. it takes until late in v7 before there is any consensual sex here; up to then it's all rape, each and every time.
alas, while OGN does improve, it never actually becomes good. heck, the art improves more than the storyline -- it is especially good in action scenes. alas i hate ayase's character design with that sharp-chinned, triangular face of which 50% is permanently tear-filled eyes, and that tiny, pouty mouth, and the girlchild body (it even looks like he has tiny breasts). the guys are a lot more appealingly drawn. there is no overarching plot, there are only plot bunnies that go on for a few chapters. for a bit there, maybe a total of one volume, it looked like the story might finally take off and garner some depth; but no, instead now every man falls in love with ayase. the chibis are cute, sure, but they don't make up for the rest. so, i am tired of it and will drop it.